Don't be that person, that women that would brake up a family. Plus if he really love you, he will leave his wife and still be a father and then come back to you.
besides, how much respect do you really have for him for doing this to his family in the first place?
)Being a lesbian is about sex, but it’s about more than that. I suggest talking with a good therapist to help you sort this out.
So make sure that you really can see yourself in a relationship with another woman and consider all the other aspects of being a lesbian before you make your decision. Don’t do anything rash, but do do what is right for you.
How do you go to sleep at night knowing that at any minute the wife can find out and toucan help ruin the family?
This guy is the one to blame if you wot be with him someone else will. I'd hemleavws his wife that's one thing, then i wish yourhr best, but until that day comes have a little more self respect and leave him alone Well I'm ashamed to say that I was in a similiar situation as you.
You can start here by reading others stories from women and read about how they knew they were a lesbian. You might also relate to these stories of other women who were married before coming out.
Most of all, I stress that you take the time to figure this out for yourself and don’t rush the process.
sometimes things do not work out, in which case you take the high road, try to fix the problems in your marriage, and end things maturely if neccessary. his family will never respect you and you will never respect yourself. Why would you want to be with a man that oes around his own wife and kids backs to be with anothernwoman?
Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
And even if he decided to leave his wife,he might later on realize that he still loves her and eventually leave you in a bad situation that way. I'm in the same situation and have been with this man for a year now.
So run away from this man as fast as you can for you own sanity........ He is in the process of a separation/divorce but has 2 little girls.
if he had any respect for you or his family or even his future family with you.... if he is not happy in his marriage then he needs to end that first, before building into another entire relationship.